“Placing my head on my knees, I let the irrational tears fall unrestrained. I am crying over the loss of something I never had. How ridiculous. Mourning something that never was- my dashed hopes, my dashed dreams, and my soured expectations.”
I am pretty sure that there are quite a few of us out there that know exactly what that feels like. You meet someone, everything seems to be going good, you’re happy, you think they’re happy, you think that its going somewhere and eventually it’ll be more but then it happens… its over, its done, now you’re just left with a million questions, a bunch of what ifs, and doubts, and just overall confusion. How could something that seemed like it actually meant something now be nothing. And no matter how much you try not to think about it, you can’t help but replay moments back in your head and try to figure out where it went wrong. What could you have done differently, what could you have said differently? How could the other person just walk away so easily without a care, without no regard to how it makes you feel? How could one moment they like you and then next its as if you don’t even exist? Why do people constantly hurt others like that, why is it so hard to be honest and upfront and not build someone up into believing that there is a possibility of more, when that intention was never there or the intention was gone long before the words were even spoken?
I want to be like the other person, I want to walk away and feel nothing, go on and not for one second stop and wonder why… How do you do that? How do you learn to not feel, to not care, to not question.. Why does one person always have the upper hand…
I wasn’t in love, not even close to it, but I can’t seem to get over the hurt, the sadness, the feeling of being used. I’m happy and sad and angry all at the same time. I should have listened to my gut, I shouldn’t have brushed off the red flags, but I fell for words and disregarded actions. Had I listened to what my little voice was telling me, I wouldn’t be feeling this way, I would have just walked away fine but it wasn’t like that. I chose to believe him when he said he liked me, he liked “us” I stupidly put myself in this position and now here I sit… mourning what was never mine and didn’t exist in the first place.